Monday, February 25, 2013

LOVE: what it really means



Love, perhaps the most magical word that a human dictionary contains; and is in my perception the only feeling that human possess. They say that we fall in love, but I think we don't fall in but fall for Love. Wherever you settle your eyes on, you would be able to visualize Love there, and if you are not then you are just not trying too. If there is something like God in this universe then he is prevalent in the moments of Love. 

             Defining Love is perhaps a tricky task, you need to put in all you have felt since childhood in few sentences as I realize that all a human feels is just Love and nothing else. Your feeling of hatred for something or someone is just a strong feeling of Love for some other thing. All you need to know is what you really love. The surprises of childhood amazed you at first so that you start loving them in some time. The anger, frustration depression around defeats, failures, scolding’s, etc was just our love for success. We condition ourselves that Love and happiness revolves around great moments, but great moments often catch us unaware- beautifully wrapped in simplicity and what others may say a small one. So, it's not just a moment that we love but the coming trails of it.
             
             Loving a person is not at all different, you might not even realize sometimes that you love someone, but all you need to do once you do realize is to let that someone know about it. She might say no, but just keep hoping for a yes, even after a no. Love is not about trying to live a happy life with the one you love, but making your beloved's life a happy one, whether with you or without you. Just remember, to spend your life, you would need that person more who loves you than the one, whom you love. It's never a big deal if you fall in love, big moments come when somebody falls in love with you. Love is unconditional, not because people say so but what can change on basis of a condition can never be a human feeling. So if you Love someone then make sure at least she comes to know about it. It might not do any good but believe me it would never do any harm too. You would at least have the answer to the question, "what if I would have asked her?" And yes, it's a big question to live with if left unanswered.