Friday, October 12, 2012

The secret...

The biggest secret of life is that being happy is the easiest thing to do, and the biggest irony of life is that most of the people are never interested in things which are easy to do. Ever thought about the things which make you happy? Well yes, love from others, prizes, success, fame, etc would be the first things that will come into mind, but those feelings are more surrounded by a bigger abstraction of satisfaction. Things much more simpler than these are the one's which can bring smile anytime on anyone's face. You don't need a miracle to make you happy, things common as a sight of a kid playing and doing naughty things around you can give you a time travel and there on your lips would be the smile that you and others will be missing. Sight of natural beauty, the touch of a beautiful flower, the night in a solitary landscape, the feel of ocean's water come and go with a wave, the reflection of moon in the sea, the height where everything is below you, the moment when you catch and put clouds in your pocket. Every time you experience these for a bit, those moments are always accompanied by your smile. The delight after a long sort meal, the fullness after having Gajar ka Halwa, the tenderness of Gulab jamoon, the patience surrounding mom's dinner, the surprise around a self cooked dish. Well each one of them always suffice the appetite of heart for happiness. Memories of childhood, memoirs of first love, experiences, exchanges, commitments of friendship, lively pages of slam/scrap books, the shine of photo albums, the content of long self talks. You might not realize but you are always happy and smiling around these memories. And the best reason to be happy is to make other's happy. I always feel that a smile induces a chain reaction or is recursive in nature. You help someone, and you are happy, you make someone smile, and you are smiling, you give a needy and you never feel sacrifice besides you get the joy of giving. I feel being upset or sad is a pretty difficult task. From the million reasons of happiness surrounding you, you will have to pick some and turn it into something that makes you feel bad. Sometimes, you just can't escape sorrow, but for all other times believe me you have infinite reasons to be happy and millions of people to give smile to.